Since becoming an adult, there are a few things that pretty much no one likes to talk about except for me: money, the Jonas Brothers, Vine, privilege, my acne, and anal sex.
For some reason (or perhaps, all the reasons), anal sex has a huge stigma and fear around it, especially when it comes to women. I’m here to say, once and for all: anal sex is just sex! I mean, it’s obviously quite complex, but it’s nothing to bug out about—especially if you follow some of these helpful tips before you try it for the first time or with a new partner.
So, you want to try it but don’t know where to start? We’re here to help educate, reduce the stigma, and make sure you have bomb butt sex! (Yep, I said it!) Here’s our guide, with some help from Board Certified Sex Therapist, Ieshai T. Bailey, CMHC, LMHC, CST.
Get over the stigma
First of all, basically anyone can have anal…